Lessons this Spring

You would be foolish to give love in abundance and think there’s enough of it to go around. Because in this realist world, what you want is reciprocation, a fair deal. Ok, maybe even an unfair deal, but a deal nevertheless. But in matters of the heart, this doesn’t work. People will always judge you. They will convince you that you do not deserve what you’ve got. They will pull you down. Unconditional love is a fairy tale. A lesson hard-learnt, then.

Of course, there are exceptions. Those that will say to you, it’s alright, making mistakes is human, let’s move on. Those that will never give up on you. Those that will believe in you and your goodness, no matter what. These, then, are the too-good-to-be-true people and you hang on to them for dear life. For life may not be a fairy tale but around these people, it might seem like one in short euphoric bursts.

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3 thoughts on “Lessons this Spring

  1. i was beginning to fear that you had resigned from your blog. but you are back 😀 these are powerful realisations because in a twisted way they set you free. they make you stop expecting things from love and then when good things happen you just feel pleasantly surprised.

  2. @Nidhi: It is a lesson well learnt.

    ” Those that will never give up on you. Those that will believe in you and your goodness, no matter what. “…These guys still exist???? Show me where, when, who?

    @Oof-Ya: “these are powerful realisations because in a twisted way they set you free. they make you stop expecting things from love and then when good things happen you just feel pleasantly surprised”…
    Does this mean that you would be in a relationship without expecting anything at all.

  3. Sve, you are wise beyond your years. please to be imparting some of it to me too.

    Anand, I’m wise..behind my ears too. don’t you be fishing here! 😀

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